12 Days::Pass It On

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It's day nine of 12 Days of Holiday Peace!, and today's message is brought to you by H.

Pass It On...

I asked H what advice he'd give if someone were to ask him how to find peace. My profound husband thought about it for a minute or two and then he said, "Hug someone."

Now, what you must know is that H is not a hugger, but has hitched his star to mine and I am a compulsive hugger. He endures hugs from me each morning, afternoon and evening, in public, in private, long hugs, and short squeezes. Sometimes he'll see me headed in his direction and say out loud, "Get ready. Here she comes."

So when H offered hugs as a way to find peace, I couldn't resist and had to answer, "Are you serious?" His simple answer? "Yes. Hugs. Because sometimes getting peace is more about giving it away to someone else, than it is about getting it for yourself."

Today, pass it on. It doesn't have to be a hug, if that's not your thing. But find a way to grace someone else with a little bit of peace today. You could let that person ahead of you in line at the grocery store, let someone merge onto the highway, give someone else the closer parking spot, pay for a meal for the person in line behind you. Or how about something like this? The possibilities are endless!

pve design  – (December 21, 2009 8:13 AM)  

Now that is what the world needs now! HUGS!
I love hugs! My Dad gives the best bear hugs!
pve

sherry ♥ lee  – (December 21, 2009 8:52 AM)  

Oh my gosh, that H is a profound man (love his mittens!). I am a hugger, I am so tactile and my parents were split on the issue. My mom was so reserved about it and my dad would hug and cuddle but we had other issues with my dad...yet I knew when the hugs were sincere and I believe what H says...the hugs he gave where his way of offering peace.

I was just thanking God this morning for the peace I feel in my life -- the sense of well being and being in this place I have never been before in my life and how contented I feel...how blessed I am to have achieved this with his help.

So lets continue hugging...and pass it on! ♥


(((Deidra))) and one for (((H)))!!

African American Mom  – (December 21, 2009 9:09 AM)  

We are huggers in my house, too. It really can go far.

~Leslie  – (December 21, 2009 9:30 AM)  

I love giving and receiving hugs! I also like the idea of finding more ways to pass along peace! Thank you!

Anna See  – (December 21, 2009 9:35 AM)  

Great advice, H!

Off to hug someone now...

Tee  – (December 21, 2009 9:43 AM)  

Merry Christmas Deidra! Found your lovely blog this morning thru Michelle at Graceful. I like this. I'm not a hugger, but my 14 yr old son is famous for his hugs- bet he'll gladly give me a lesson.

Purple Flowers  – (December 21, 2009 10:24 AM)  

Excellent post!!!! I'm all about paying it forward. It means so much to me to see someone wave or smile when I give them the right of way, or let them through. I believe it's very important for each of us to behave in a loving manner. I think that is what we are here for.

Micah Holden  – (December 21, 2009 2:52 PM)  

Hugs to YOU!! Happy Happy Happy Christmas!
Micah

Suz  – (December 21, 2009 3:34 PM)  

I get hugs from H all the time. I feel very special now.

Thanks for your post. You know I am a hugger an fortunately so is Bob. I think a hug can reduce your blood pressure!

When Bob and I hug, we always let out a simultaneous sigh! It's funny!

Ms. Trish  – (December 21, 2009 5:39 PM)  

hugs are AWESOME! but i used to NOT be a hugger.

here's a post i wrote before: http://ricianne.blogspot.com/2008/06/celebrating-love.html

now i love to give & receive hugs.

thanks for reminding me why i love hugging people. here's a e-hug* for you. merry christmas

Tricia  – (December 21, 2009 5:40 PM)  

I am not a hugger, but there is something to what he said. To give or recieve a hug definitely increases peace. :)

Chicago Mom  – (December 21, 2009 7:23 PM)  

I am a serial hugger too. Plus I am a giggler; drives my husband nuts. I love to let people who only have an item or two in front of me in line at the store. They are always so surprised, it's a wonderful feeling!

Maria  – (December 21, 2009 7:47 PM)  

I love the words of the song we sang Sunday~
Jesus came like a winter snow
Quiet, Soft and Slow

Just like a hug ♥

I truly value the beauty, grace & wisdom I find here and among all those I've met in 'blogland.'

A very Merry Christmas to you and your family, Deidra~

Blessings and Grace Always ~ Maria

Kwana  – (December 21, 2009 9:30 PM)  

Oh H thank you! It's a wise man that learns from his wise wife.
And thank you for your prayers and kind words today.

Chocolate Covered Daydreams  – (December 21, 2009 10:07 PM)  

H answered that one beautifully. So glad that he recognizes that he gets a hug when he sees you coming his way and knows that it's something that you need for him to receive and in return, it will give you joy.

Loved that!

Holly  – (December 22, 2009 1:07 AM)  

A good hug makes the troubles go away...at least for a little while! I am trying hard to slow down these holidays...I have let people with an item or two go in front of me in line, carried bags, bought coffee, etc. Really trying to be present and not just think about how busy I should be (or am). We went shopping the other night and people were so caught up, and pushy, and rude...and I will not be like that...or show my children that it is OK to be like that.

Weezer  – (December 22, 2009 2:18 AM)  

I don't think you can live in Georgia and not be receptive to hugs. Recently, when my husband and I went and rang bells for the Salvation Army, some people would actually apologize for walking past and not contributing to the kettle. Being the hugger I am, with their apology they got a hug from me. I've actually walked up to the real bell-ringers and hugged them. There's just something about that contact.
Another great post, Deidra.

Estelle  – (December 24, 2009 11:33 PM)  

I love this post. It says so much about your husband and it just made me feel peaceful learning a bit about the two of you. I love the idea of passing on a bit of peace. Thank you. What a delightful message for tonight. I wish you a very happy Christmas.

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